If you remember, last week I told you that your call reluctance or prospecting reluctance wasn't your fault even though most people tell you it is.
The basic truths you are about to discover will be so obvious to you that you'll wonder why you haven't noticed them before.
After you read the list, download our free e-book using the form on the left of this blog and you'll recognize even more evidence proving what you already know!
5 Unconscious Reasons Call Reluctance Isn't Your Fault1. You were trained to get off the phone: Think back to when you were a teenager for just a moment. Do you recall your mom, dad, sister, or brother yelling at you to get off the phone?
Most agents remember this vividly. Our family didn't realize it, but when they yelled this over and over and over, they were training us to want to get off the phone our entire life!
2. You were taught never to talk to strangers: During our most impressionable years, we were all directed over and over again never to talk to strangers. We teach our kids the same thing today!
3. There are laws against being on the phone: Now, I understand why we have these laws, but when we are told be a government authority that being on the phone in the car is against the law, we unconsciously process that being on the phone is illegal!
4. There is a stigma for being on the phone: Have you ever been on a bus, train, or at the movies and got a dirty look (or given one) for being on the phone? Don't you hate that feeling? That is society's way of telling us it's "not right" to be on the phone.
5. It's not our personality: The fact is that most of us don't have a natural personality for prospecting. We don't wake up looking forward to prospecting. It's just like anything else. If you're shy you don't want to be around a bunch of type A personalities. If your funny, you don't want to tell jokes in a serious crowd.
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When you discover that we've been trained (literally since birth) to want to get off the phone, you can release any guilt you have about not prospecting!
If you would like that experience, I encourage you to download our free e-book, The Power of Unconscious Prospecting, using the form on the left of this blog.
Dedicated to your success,
John Alexandrov
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